Okay love is thoughtful. I've read so many times that a woman expects a man to know what she's thinking or feeling. Yet everytime after I read it, I still expect Babe to know what I'm thinking or feeling. Funny.
We had a dispute recently about Babe getting a gym membership. Keeping it short, I felt like he could have waited until the funds were there & selfishly, I didn't want him at the gym so much either. With babe being so persistent as he calls it, he asked me the first time and I said no. He asked again the next day, and I said no. So he does this to the point where I just say whatever sure (but I don't mean it). B/c this whatever sure is like the kind you do it with attitude and you give him the look like "You do it & you know what's going to happen" kind of look. But of course he doesn't get my look haha.
Well Monday, we finally sat and talked it out. There's more to the story of course but it's long. Like right before all this, he said I had one of my schizo moments where I'm happy one minute and then pissed the next. But the thing is, he doesn't see that it's b/c stuff happens that makes me snap -- moodwise. And like this chapter states, if he would put two and two together, he would see that I'm not as schizo as he thinks lol. But that's not him. He doesn't read in between the lines like how I want him to. But most of the time, that's why problems happen and/or extends.
(Summarized from the book) "He gets frustrated because she's speaking in riddles and doesn't just come out with it, while she's frustrated that he's inconsiderate and doesn't add two and two together and figure it out."
Hmm...sounds familiar. Oh forgot to write that my love dare for today is to call Babe & ask how he's doing and if I could do anything for him.
I'll leave the blog with some more test shots with my new friend. (*pics minor edited)
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